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The Bitter Truth
No one realizes the real value of something or someone until one loses it. This is the truth of life. You behave the best and go a mile ahead not for your own people but for someone else for short term gains. There is nothing new about it. It happens in every relationship, chosen ones too. The past no matter how old will haunt you forever in your later life asking what if you had behaved or done something differently. And believe me you hurt the maximum who cares for you the most. What if that person stops caring, forgets emotions for you, things will be better for him/ her since you would not be able to hurt them anymore. But can that happen? Can a mother, a wife, a father stop caring and loving?
I used to wonder on the recluse life of the sadhus and saints. Away from public life they are devoted to something else all together. For them the world is their family. It does not matter who criticises them they shower their blessings on all without any bias. Can a normal human become like them from inside? May be. May be not. It is for you to decide what gives you happiness without hurting your people. Or the ones hurt to decide if they can cease to feel for someone so dear to them.
As per my opinion you should learn prioritising. It is a big help. Keep your mind clear of what you want and how can you achieve it without costing your dear ones. This is called work life balance and in no condition you should forget that your foremost responsibility is towards your home. Companies, bosses will keep changing but your family will be the same even if you chose to ignore. A man is nothing without your own people especially if you are living a public life full of "moh-maya". I leave it to you to think, as an individual or as a family man what will be your priority and are you actually taking care of it?
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